That's right, I'm too nice...
I was at work doing my paperwork and giving report... I got into a debate/ argument with one of the nurses... He was talking about his latest Girlfriend... and he told me he was considering leaving her alone because she was to flaky... "you just gotta bag em and tag em... then you move on" those were his words not mine...
I told him that I was looking for more than just a "fling" and he told me that girls don't like guys that are too nice and old fashioned... "the Gene Kelley act went out with his movies" he added again...
That kinda pissed me off ... but then I regained my composeure..
My Grandparents were married for 56 years when my grandfather passed away... I feel that communication is important... more than that, I believe in treating a lady like a lady.. why should I change and take on the bad guy persona just to have love... Love gained through a lie is not love at all... it is only temporary... I would rather be alone and be known as kind and careing than to be wasting my time in a relationship built on a lie. I am who I am, I like a girl who can speak her mind and I will always respect her for having a brain... I respect a girl for who she is, and belive friendship is one of the most important ingredients in a healthy relationship.. but what do I know? I have alot to give and yes sometimes I have a habbit of being too nice, but im working on it...
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